A dot plot showing the times is shown here:
In both cases we can see that the most common times were 3, 4, 5, and 6 minutes, although there are also several times of 7, 8, and 9 minutes. There were no times of 1, 2, or 10 minutes.
To find the mean, we need to add up all of the times and divide by the number of data points, 20. This gives
$$
\frac{3 \times 3 + 4 \times 4 + 5 \times 5 + 3 \times 6 + 2\times 7 + 2 \times 8 + 1 \times 9}{20}.
$$
Evaluating this expression gives 5.35 minutes.
There are 20 numbers in the list so the median will be average of the middle two numbers:
$$
3, 3, 3, 4, 4, 4, 4, 5, 5, {\bf {\large 5}}, {\bf {\large 5}}, 5, 6, 6, 6, 7, 7, 8, 8, 9.
$$
The middle two numbers are both 5's so the median is 5 minutes.
These two results make sense because the data are slightly skewed toward the larger numbers. Since the median is 5 we expect the mean to be larger than 5.